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• Why register an escort business and which structure to chose?

  Legal status of the escort industry being as delicate as it is today, registration is another safety measure that cannot be ignored by anyone who plans on staying in business.

• Escort terms, sex definitions and abbreviations in escort ads

  This is a reference for escort terms and abbreviations used to describe varoius sexual activities in escort ads. Each sex term is followed by a definition and…

• How to register an escort business in the US and in Canada

  So, you're thinking of starting work as an escort and want to make your escort job a tax legal business. Learn how to do it step by step in…

• Condom 101 for escorts

  One of the necessary tools of the trade for escorts is a condom. With each and every client, an escort should use a condom if any kind of physical, sexual intercourse is going to be a part of the meeting.

• Choosing an escort-friendly city

  Along with figuring out the basics of what kind of escort you want to be and how you'll settle the what's-what of the business, the first decision you need to make may seem obvious: where do you want to work?

• How do escorts accept donations?

  Our visitors ask, "what to do with an escort?" The first thing to do with an escort is settle the donation: when the date starts, escort's donation should be handed over—in full.

• Awkward with women? Hire an escort

  No matter how (un)attractive you are, how much money you (don't) make, or what you have to show off, it just takes some confidence, practice and good timing to get… game

• Affair or an escort? Choose less drama and risk

  How often to the people who seek out physical gratification actually want their marriages to end? Learn why dating an escort is better than having an affair.

• 9 more facts about escorts

  The escort industry is often about discretion. But now and then a bit of hard-core research unearths some tantalizing tidbits of information that we just have to share.

• How to discuss escort rates

  One of the things that make people nervous when dating an escort is payment. "How to ask an escort her rates? Can I get in trouble if I text an escort and ask her for rates?" are real-life questions that gnaw at real people's minds.

• How to be an escort: 7 tips to get started

  There are several steps you can take in order to successfully accomplish the work necessary to set yourself up as an escort. Follow these basic tips to get a good footing from which to…

• Do escorts kiss?

  The decision to include kissing in one's bag of tricks is an entirely personal one that involves boundary setting and personal limits. Many escorts feel that kissing clients is a natural part of the process.

• Advantages of dating an escort

  Despite the attempts of ultra-conservative circles to paint visits with an escort in all black, dating escorts can be one of the most fulfilling, honest and clean relationships a human can have these days.

• How to date an escort

  Basic things like being on time, showing up clean, accepting the price for services without haggling and treating your escort with respect are important things to do anytime that you meet up with and hire an escort for a date.

• 10 phone tips for escorts

  The phone may be the tool you use to do a lot of business as an escort: booking appointments, fielding questions from prospective clients, setting up advertising and scheduling travel arrangements.

• Choosing an escort incall location: Pros and cons of a hotel room and an apartment

  Many escorts prefer to make the client take care of the location, whether it's a hotel room or private residence. Others prefer to have the client come to them. Here are some considerations…

• Basic escort and adult entertainment terms

  Many of the terms are self-explanatory, but some can be confusing for the naive or sheltered. These are the basic terms that one may run across when looking to buy sex toys, subscribe to an adult website or hire an escort.

• 10 things to consider before your first date as an escort

  You've made the decision to work as an escort, and booked your first client. Smooth sailing so far? Great. But before you see the client there are some practical things…

• Escorts don't need cigarettes to be smoking hot

  High-end escorts are the ones that make the most money, garner the top clients and maintain the best lifestyles. However, some actions performed by escorts take away what class and distinction they've worked to project

• 16 safety tips for Greek (anal) sex and scat play

  Whether you go along with his or her request is entirely up to you, however if you do engage in either activity you should be very conscientious to take precautions

• Should escorts mix alcohol with work?

  In the escort business, alcohol is extremely common because clients hire escorts in order to relax. Often, relaxing also means imbibing an alcoholic beverage or two.

• 8 fetishes escorts are asked about

  From scat play to foot worship, escorts get requests that clients are afraid to mention with their regular partners. Most people are embarrassed to admit to their wives or…

• How to browse Dating.com without your significant other finding out

  When you are checking out content that people don't usually discuss in public, you may not want other people to know which websites you have visited.

• Importance of a good gynecologist to an escort

  Due to the sensitive nature of your work as an escort, it's essential to have a good doctor on call to treat you and perform routine exams and tests. Discretion by a gynecologist is highly valued, along with an open mind.

• 11-point test: Do you have what it takes to be an escort?

  Sometimes the life of an escort may appear to be full of spa days, exotic vacations and nights of wild, passionate sex with a good-looking, powerful man. However, this image of an escort's life isn't always realistic.

• 12 ways to prepare for a great date with an escort

  There are several things you can do ahead of time to enhance your date with an escort. These tasks are simple, considerate and necessary in order to fully enjoy your…

• Escorts and celebrities

  Escorts and the rich and famous

  1. Nell Gwyn: Actress, escort, royal mistress
  2. Mata Hari: Dancer, escort… Spy?
  3. Gypsy Rose Lee, escort & burlesque star

• Male escorts and patrons

  Male escorts through history

  1. Alexander the Great lover
  2. Richard the Lionheart, the men charmer
  3. Flexible laws: Gays in Korean and Vietnam wars

• How can an escort please clients?

  …In ways other than obvious? It can sometimes be difficult to pinpoint exactly how to act to please each and every client. However, there are key steps that escorts can take that will help ensure success each and every time

• 8 more things to avoid when dating an escort

  Spending time with an escort is meant to be fun and stress-free. There are some things to remember when visiting with your escort that will help to ensure a positive…

• Bad economy is good for escort business

  Over and over, again, men engage mistresses or escorts. This behavior seems to be inherently programmed in man's psyche. When times get tough, the tough, apparently, get busy!

• 10 steps to a safer outcall for escorts

  Any escort that provides out-call services has a checklist of do's and don'ts that he or she goes through when booking an appointment. Some of the items on the checklist are to ensure…

• 5 tips for working with another escort

  Whether you're just starting out or have been working as an escort for a while, there may come a point when you're requested to bring along a second escort to meet a client.

• Escorts and sex in Satyricon

  Considered one of the first novels ever written, the Satyricon was composed around the turn of the I century AD by Gaius Petronius Arbiter, an intriguing figure if there ever was one. Petronius lived in Rome during the reign of Nero…

• 4 keys to leaving the best first impression as an escort

  Because an individual may become a client based on the first few moments he or she is engaged in communication with an escort, it's important to make the most of that first…

• 6 questions that will help you build your escort business

  If you're just starting your escort business, chances are you've imagined both the best and worst case scenarios of the kind of clients you'll be meeting with. And, yes, you may have both kinds of those clients in one day.

• 6 rules for an escort's security guard

  Many escorts hire professionals to provide personal security for them and ensure their safety as they meet with clients. One can never predict when security will be needed during…

• How to haggle with an escort

  While bargaining for a discount may be acceptable when buying an item of clothing, a piece of artwork or dinner out, it is frowned upon greatly when you are negotiating with an escort.

• Escort health: The what's what of STD (sexually transmitted diseases)

  Being an escort, you'll find yourself surrounded by a wide variety of men who will most likely be sexually attracted to you. And in those moments, you should be as educated as possible

• 7 ways to attract and keep the clients you want for your escort business

  There are a lot of handsome, educated, successful and kind clients out there who want to share their time with someone who is beautiful, intelligent, caring and equally kind

• Sex in ancient Greece and Rome

  Ever wonder how those huge warriors in 300 got in on before Astroglide and KY Jelly? Or what all those women did when their men were off in battle for years at a time? How did they make it all work? The men and women of ancient Greek and…

• How to be an escort's best client

  You can't be guaranteed to be your escort's best client, but you can do some things that will definitely make you one of the more favored clients. Here are some suggestions

• How to maintain a good relationship with your escort: 5 tips

  While every experience with an escort should be a good one, there are some things you can do to help make all your escort dates still more pleasurable and better overall. Use these tips to ensure a good experience.

• 6 ways to repeat escort business

  An escort can have an incredibly successful business if he or she works on six separate concepts in order to keep repeat clients.

• Keep them coming back for more

  Just like in any business, it's important to keep the clients in an escort business coming back for more. Conventional marketing techniques, tweaked to apply to the services provided through escorting, can help retain clients.

• Escort safety first: How escorts can stay safe

  The success of your business is based on your ability to protect yourself from physical harm, legal issues and disease.

• 6 steps to better self-care for escorts

  When you're an escort, your clients expect the highest degree of pampering and spoiling from you when they are on an appointment with you. You are good at spoiling and pampering them, but what about pamering yourself?

• How to join forces with other escorts

  Even though you are directly competing with other escorts for clients and appointments, it can still be a good idea to join up with others in the business for several reasons.

• Identify time wasting "clients"

  On many occasions, individuals will call or email an escort to inquire about his or her services, only to ask several questions, to chat with no honest intention of making a date.

• Escort dilemma: In-call vs out-call

  Some escorts conduct their business with both in-calls and out-calls, while others stick strictly to only one method of seeing clients. There are advantages to both forms of sessions.

• 10 STDs and STIs an escort should be concerned about

  Escorts need to be constantly aware that regardless of how careful and cautious they are with clients, the risk of becoming infected with an STD or an STI is always present.

• Off the clock can work for you

  The most essential thing to do is to consider how visits off the clock will affect one's bottom line. If the situation is not bettering you as an escort, it's a wise idea to shy away from changes.

• Massage therapy licensing by state in the US

  Escorts who wish to transition their skills into massage therapy must meet satisfy the requirements set forth by various certification bodies across the states.

• Ways for escorts to approach potential clients in the hotel bar

  One of the most important things you can do when using a hotel bar as a place to meet clients is to look and act like you belong there. Dress and act the part. Dress well, act sophisticated and carry yourself with a sense of pride.

• How to work in a hotel

  Many escorts find that befriending lonely travelers at a hotel bar or in the lobby is a way to earn their wages. However, in order to make this work in a hotel, it helps to have a good working relationship with the concierge, bell staff and the hotel bar manager.

• Uranian sex and spirituality

  The idea of Uranian is quite liberating, both from a sexual and spiritual term. Because of the lack of judgment in both viewpoints we can apply this to our contemporary arguments about escorting.

• Female escort trade: Feminist perspective

  In no way is it possible for one person, or a group of people, to deem escorting as right or wrong. And, like issues of abortion or gay marriage, a country that claims to be the "land of the free" should allow each woman or man to choose for themselves.

• Moulin Rouge and escorts

  Moulin Rouge. The red mill that sits in the Montmartre region of Paris, and home to bohemian love, lust, alcoholism, music and art of the post-impressionist era. Famed dance hall, home to courtesans and their admirers.

• Courtesans: successful professional escorts

  As a top-rated escort, a courtesan was expected to be a socially acceptable companion who was worldly, well-educated, intelligent and witty, attractive and…

• Georgina Beyer: Tranny sex worker MP

  How did Georgina Beyer find herself with any means of political power—with a history that included a sex change, solicitation charges, drug addiction and prostitution?

• Josie Arlington, New Orleans madam

  She was was fiercely protective of her family. So much so that she supported them by becoming a prostitute in 1881, when she was only 17 years old.

• Veronica Franco: Poet and escort

  Veronica Franco is quite bewildering to the contemporary mind. Born in 1546 in Venice, she was a cortigiana onesta — an intellectual courtesan — the equivalent of a modern…

• Escorts and madams of the Wild Wild West

  Because of the abundance of men and the need for some quick loving, it's no surprise that brothels sprung up in cities from Nebraska to Utah to our beloved Deadwood…

• Top 11 strategies for escorts to stay out of legal trouble

  Escort tips: How to stay out of legal trouble by never crossing the line between an escort and a prostitute.

• Porn star, prostitute, or escort?

  If a Hollywood actor, or politician, or school-teacher, or lawyer were called a hooker in print you can bet there'd be a stink about it. Call someone a "hooker" in print, that's libel…

• Sex as a tool of spouses and escorts

  Women and men may prostitute themselves with sex used as a powerful bartering tool. But, this is certainly nothing new. From the Egyptians to the European courtesans, pioneer madams to speakeasy queens…

• Marriage vs escort services

  What are you willing to sacrifice to get what you want — your entire independence, as in marriage, or a handful of dollars and no commitments whatsoever, as with escorts?

• Don't get busted for tax evasion: Why registering your escort business is the only option

  Luciano Pavarotti, Martha Stewart, Willie Nelson, Marc Anthony, our beloved Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and even former Vice President Spiro Agnew…

• 7 steps to a better escort ad

  Read how an extra minute spent on making your escort ad actually unique will result in more business—and start advertising better than the rest.

• Tips on writing an effective escort ad

  A bad escort ad is one where you barely describe yourself and only have a titty/ass photo. Sure, guys love looking at naked women, but men also like to have a clue as to who you are.

• How to read and understand an escort ad

  If you're a 'newbie', we're certain you do not know how to read an escort ad. Ladies use lots of abbreviations to describe their skills and some of your favorite sexual acts.

• The fine legal line between escort and prostitute: strategies for an escort to stay out of trouble

  A few suggestions to help an escort stay on the legal side of business and keep at bay one of the worst threats every worker faces: the government.

• Avoiding issues come tax time for the private escort

  Freelance escorting is not unlike other small businesses or freelancers, and in reality, it's fairly simple to set up your work so that, come tax time, you won't feel overwhelmed.

• The escort-client relationship and tips for staying safe

  A safety checklist to ensure that a client and an escort spend enjoyable time together.

• Prostitution laws by state in the US and Canada

  Prostitution laws, definitions, and penalties listed by state, province, major city and—in the special case of Nevada—by county.

• The what's what of sexual lubrication

  When selecting your new favorite lubricant there are several factors to consider. Will the lube be used for oral sex? Intercourse? Anal? Or simply for tactile pleasure? How long…

• Toys you never dared to bring home, but can try with an escort

  Dating.com presents a list of naughty gift ideas—from the Santa lap dance apron to the Baby Jesus butt plug.

• Escorts on the screen

  The sex-for-hire trade (or time-for-hire, as in the case of escorts) has had no better place for discussion than in film: what we are reluctant to talk about with neighbors, friends, politicians and clergy finds almost a safe home on…

• Music to make love to

  When it comes to creating a list of music to make love to, the selection of artists and songs are subjective at best. Not everyone is turned-on by the same instruments, moods and lyrics.

• Tips from an escort: Guide to behaving with an escort—a few Dos and Donts

  If you know what not to do in any given situation, you can expect miracles. You may save a life, you may save yourself from an ass-kicking and…

• Top 10 things not to do with an escort

  The use of escort services is definitely not a new thing in society: this type of an arrangement has been going on for centuries. Throughout time, not much has changed about the expectations…

• A quick first timer's guide to dating an escort

  Your meeting needs to be planned. She's not a working girl on the street. She's a professional woman and it's important that she feels safe with you. She won't accept…

• A few quick rules for quick escort fun

  Escorts are a ton of fun but it's important that you know the rules of the game. It's important to know these rules, primarily for your own safety, but also not to make an ass out of yourself.

• Escorts: what not to do

  You're less likely to see these rules framed and hanging to the side of your escort's boudoir as you should simply be aware of them when entering a home or the hotel room where your encounter is taking place.

• Tips from an escort: what to expect from an escort

  Every business interaction has its own set of unwritten rules. For example, ski masks are frowned upon for bank customers, even when it's cold enough outside to shatter teeth.

• How Internet changed the escort industry

  High-end courtesans, affordable escorts, budget providers, and many levels of others who provide only certain services and skills. Whatever you are looking for in an escort, you will undoubtedly find her, him, them, or it online with the help of Dating.com

• Escorts can phone it in

  Even though most escorts provide services to their clients in person, there is the rare occasion that one will follow through on a client's wish to have an encounter over the telephone in order to steam things up for a later rendezvous