An escort has only one chance to make a positive first impression. Human beings make judgments quickly, based on their first impressions when they meet, talk to or communicate with someone. Because an individual may become a client based on the first few moments he or she is engaged in communication with an escort, it's important to make the most of that initial meeting. Here are some tips that will help you to make the most of any first impression when you're working as an escort:
Your ads. For many clients, the first impression of you will come from viewing your ads at Dating.com. If your ad is amateurish, clunky, unreadable, unappealing, or like thousand others, you may not get a chance to even talk to a potential client. They may choose an escort who has a more professional-looking offer than to give you a second chance to make a better impression. You are unique, so why come across as a cookie-cutter escort? Learn to produce great escort ads and know how to take excellent escort pictures.
Phone contact. Many first impressions occur when your ad generated a phone call. Do your best to pick up the phone when it rings—the caller may not leave or message and may be discouraged about calling back. However, when you do pick up the phone to talk to a potential client, make sure you have time to chat. Devote your attention to him or her, not to folding laundry, paying the cashier at the market or other task that may cause you to seem distracted. If you want something done the best possible way, do only this one thing. Make sure you have a good phone connection when you're talking to a client on the telephone; there's nothing worse than playing the old "Can you hear me now?" game with a potential client. Additionally, stay focused and remain upbeat, enthusiastic and happy throughout the entire phone call.
Email. Though you might consider is too time-consuming and impersonal, there is a surprising number of people who use email as their primary communication tool. It is often used to schedule an appointment with an escort. Make sure to use proper grammar and punctuation when you are communicating with a client through email. Keep in mind that the way in which you write often reveals how intelligent and worldly you are. Do your best to demonstrate that you have a good head on your shoulders and can fit into his or her social circles. Remain upbeat in all of your emails with a client, and avoid rambling.
Face to face. When meeting a client (or prospective client) for the first time, it's even more important to make a good first impression. The first (and, perhaps, the most important) thing to do is to dress appropriately. Whatever the event or location, aim for a classy and sophisticated look. However, dress for the occasion or activity. If you're meeting at a bar, dress differently than you would if you're meeting for a game of tennis. Make sure your hair and make-up are done for the event, too. Smile and be happy during the initial meeting. Use open body language that lets the client know you like him and hope to get to know him better. Avoid crossing your arms or legs, as this is a form of body language that makes you appear shut off and unavailable. Learn more in our article Ways for escorts to approach potential clients in the hotel bar.
