It can sometimes be difficult to pinpoint exactly how to act to please each and every client. It's difficult. There's even an old saying that it's impossible to please everyone. However, there are key steps that escorts can take that will help ensure success each and every time. These steps are easy to follow, fairly standard and can be applied to your time as an escort, as well as to general life:
Find out what your client wants. Before proceeding any further than setting up the appointment, it is imperative to identify your client's needs, wants and expectations from the time he is going to be spending with you. Clarity of these expectations is essential. You need to establish the services, activities and atmosphere your client desires prior to engaging in any "business" together. However, it is only safe to be cautious when discussing the specific services your client wishes. Some services are considered illegal in various states within the U.S. Discuss any of these services with extreme caution.
Always be professional with your clients. Follow through with all appointments as expected and conduct yourself as a professional. Be punctual (always on time -- never late!); act enthusiastically; and provide expected services. Dress appropriately for your activity. Be clean and groomed. Stick with your established rates. (Only a novice varies from her rates regularly.) Never indulge in illegal drugs or too much booze before or during an appointment with a client. Be prepared to give your client your "all" during each and every session.
Establish boundaries… and stick to them. Whether this means you refrain from kissing clients or simply require clients to use protection, always refer to your boundaries and enforce them. Don't let a client persuade you "just this once" to surpass your limits. Decide what you will and won't do as an escort and don't let anyone convince you to change your ways.
Respect and empathize with your clients. Never look down on your clients because they are seeking your companionship and services. They are people, too, just like you. Find something you like about each and every one of them. Treat your clients with respect, courtesy and kindness. Furthermore, empathize with their issues. Many clients are simply seeking a sympathetic ear: someone with whom to share their fears and concerns and to discuss aspects of their lives they are not comfortable confronting with other people. While it's important to empathize, it's also essential to resist pitying them. Your clients do not want your pity, just as you do not want theirs.
Keep yourself healthy and happy. Avoid unhealthy lifestyle choices and maintain good health. Visit the doctor, eat a balanced diet and exercise regularly. Do things that regularly make you happy, such as reading good books, going to the movies, buying an indulgent pair of shoes or taking bubble baths. Encourage yourself to pursue a hobby or other activity that makes you smile on a daily basis. Nurture family relationships and friendships, if possible, and resist involvement with relationships that are not healthy and good for your mental state. By staying healthy and happy, you will be able to perform your job much more easily and with more ardor and passion.
Practice these steps not only in your career, but in your life. Determine what you want on a regular basis; always act with class and tact (that is, professionally); establish your limits in life and stick to them; respect and empathize with others; keep yourself happy and healthy. Maintaining this balance between your professional and personal life can help to ensure success in all things.
