The good, bad and ugly of porn star escorts

While many clients are completely satisfied by an encounter with a traditional escort who provides a girlfriend experience, others are intrigued by the opportunity to meet up with their favorite porn star for a hard-core date.

Porn escorts are not the newest trend to hit the scene in the escort industry, but they are, by far, the most expensive options that a client can pursue. Commanding thousands of dollars for a single hour of companionship, porn escorts rely on their reputation and celebrity status among pornography fans to garner them bookings to accentuate their already-full filming schedules.

Some clients think it would be a dream come true to get the chance to get it on with a pornography film actress. But what many of them don’t realize is that there are pros and cons, both, to setting up an encounter with someone so well established in the porn industry. In order to make a well-informed decision about whether booking a porn escort is right for you, it’s important to get the lowdown about what you should expect:

  1. Many porn escorts do not openly advertise their services. Because they are busy marketing their other merchandise or services (videos, photos, calendars and personal appearances), porn actresses don’t often publicly announce to their fans that they offer escort services, too. Their websites market to their fans, and most of their admirers cannot afford the rates they charge for private meetings. It’s easiest to book an encounter through an agency that specializes in providing opportunities to meet and enjoy popular porn actresses who provide escort services. However, that means locating an agency that specializes in these types of escorts. Some clients attempt to make contact directly with a porn star in hopes of obtaining a booking. Through a porn star’s website, she will provide a “contact” page or option where a client can input his request, along with information about how she can reply to him. Some men never get responses. However, some porn escorts do reply with their rates and special requirements. Many clients are able to get the ball rolling to book encounters through meeting face-to-face during personal appearances, too.
  2. Porn escorts are extremely exclusive about the types of clients they accept. Because they do not have lots of time to engage with clients, the ones they do see must be special. They reserve their time for select clientele who have incomes and wealth that allow them to have funds available to afford their expensive rates. Additionally, like any other celebrity, any client has to be well screened in order to obtain an encounter. Celebrities have even more trouble with stalkers or fans who become serious problems due to their obsessions with them than traditional escorts do. And, because porn is enjoyed by such a diverse demographic base, it’s difficult to discern between the “nice, normal fans” and the “fanatical, obsessive fans”. As a result, they must be extremely choosey when it comes to clients in order to avoid difficult issues that not only put them in danger but may also require a restraining order.
  3. Expensive rates discourage many clients from booking encounters with porn escorts. Business professionals are always taught about supply and demand principles, providing the basis for why goods that are in high demand, but in low supply always cost more than others that are more readily available. The same concepts apply for the methods that a porn escort uses to set her rates. Because there are so many fewer porn escorts serving clients in the escort industry, they are able to charge premium rates for their time. In addition to the supply/demand theory, porn actresses can command huge fees due to their name and face recognition among clients and fans. They are known for specific sexual acts they’ve demonstrated on film or in videos, and many fans claim it’s an ultimate fantasy to “make it” with their favorite porn star. In fact, it’s such a huge fantasy that they are willing to pay outrageous amounts of money for the chance to make it happen.
  4. Most porn escorts require a deposit up front to hold a booking slot. All escorts’ time is very valuable to them. However, a porn escort feels that her time is even more worthy due to the amount of money she can receive for it. To ensure that a client is capable of paying the high rates requested by a porn escort, she may require an up-front deposit before securing an encounter with a client. Porn escorts, just like other providers in the industry, receive numerous false alarms from clients who are actually timewasters or won’t follow through a booked encounter. So they don’t lose out on income they can potentially make, porn escorts make a deposit a booking condition. Additionally, it also works to ease the mind of an escort to think that a client is willing to pay up front for her time.
  5. Some porn escorts provide services that other escorts do not. Because their service is so exclusive and limited to only a few clients per year, they may offer unprotected services to select clients. If intimacies without condoms will be part of the activities included in an encounter, a porn escort may insist that her client undergo STD testing at a clinic of her specification. This may require advance planning, along with a client’s cooperation in order to provide a clean bill of health. Clients who are interested in bareback services should plan to reserve time with a porn escort with plenty of advance warning. This kind of testing and screening can’t be done on a whim.
  6. Porn escorts are the best providers of the “porn star experience,” aka PSE. While other escorts in the industry may offer the PSE, they aren’t true porn stars in order to know what the experience should entail. Essentially, a PSE encounter should be centered around raw, hardcore sexual activities. All physical activities should be void of human emotion or passion, except in their most sexual, raw forms. The experience is based solely on sexual fulfillment, not any personal attachments that is usually provided in a girlfriend experience. The PSE is intended to leave clients feeling as physically satisfied at the end of the encounter, as any GFE would. Anal sexual intercourse, facials (ejaculation on the face or neck) and strap-on penetration are typical parts of the PSE. Many porn escorts will provide unprotected oral sex and allow a client to climax their mouths, as long as they’ve consented to STD testing. In a nutshell, the porn star experience should leave a client physically drained from the sexual experience, despite the high he rides from the intensity he just encountered.
  7. Girlfriend experiences (GFEs) are available from porn star escorts, too. Even though many clients expect a raw, hardcore encounter when they book with a porn escort, those who want a more tender experience can request the GFE. After watching a favored porn actress in video after video, many clients develop an affection for her, sometimes fantasizing about what it would be like to have her as a significant other. A GFE gives these tenderhearted types of clients a chance to worship and adore a porn actress, in addition to receiving affection from her, too. Getting the chance to physically and emotionally connect with a porn star is a once-in-a-lifetime experience for most men, and it’s a service that porn star escorts get requests for frequently. Don’t naturally assume that an encounter with an escort has to be a raunchy, hardcore one.
  8. Clients should expect costs in addition to the rates that a porn escort charges for an encounter. Even if it’s not something clients may want to think about, a porn star is a celebrity (like any other) and may be accustomed to having her own way about accommodations, refreshments and other comforts that will make her time during the encounter more enjoyable. While most porn actresses aren’t in full diva mode, many will require that a client book a five-star hotel suite, order specific items from room service and provide other gifts or trinkets for her time. Also, clients should also factor in costs associated with travel. If a client is traveling to a porn escort, airfare or other costs may be incurred. (In turn, if a porn escort must travel to a client, her accommodations and travel costs will be paid by the client, too.) Unless a porn escort is touring in your town, the expense for hiring a porn escort can become quite extensive.
  9. A porn escort has a difficult schedule to fit into. Clients should expect that they will have to book several weeks, if not months, ahead of time in order to obtain an encounter. Porn actresses have erratic filming schedules that are quite hectic and may require ample recovery time in order to be ready for escorting clients. Booking in advance for a porn escort should not only be expected, but it also demonstrates how special the opportunity is. While a client may be able to, on a whim, schedule an encounter with a traditional escort, the requirement to plan much ahead of time emphasizes even more how exclusive the client lists and availability are for porn escorts. Much like the difference between being able to schedule immediately with your regular doctor, a specialist is much more difficult to get into. Clients who want to book a porn actress have to have patience and the ability to plan into the future.
  10. Porn escorts provide services to clients to make extra money, just as any other escort might. Through her film career, a porn actress may bring in $100,000 to $200,000 annually, which is a decent chunk of change. However, because she develops an expensive lifestyle or elaborate tastes, she may want to bolster her income. (The porn industry is also quite volatile right now, with free porn being available on the Internet and pirated videos available all over the place.) Porn actresses have great advantages over women who want to supplement their other incomes, because they can capitalize on their celebrity name or reputation. In addition to escorting, they also make substantial money from personal appearances at night clubs or gentleman’s entertainment venues. Sometimes, the fees they earn from appearances actually exceed the rates they make for their films.
  11. Clients sometimes have too high of expectations for encounters with porn escorts. After watching a porn actress over and over in a favorite video, a client may have fantasized that an encounter with her would be the best sex of his life. After dreaming about it for awhile, a client may actually build the experience up to unreasonable goals. Even though a porn escort is extremely talented at what she does, she is just a woman, and sex is just sex. She can’t perform immortal or magical tricks. However, if the connection and chemistry is right, she may be able to make a client’s toes curl. But if a client expects too much from the experience, he may leave disappointed.
  12. Some clients find they get stage fright when they book an encounter with a famous porn escort. Just like fans sometimes become tongue-tied or star struck when they meet an admired celebrity or movie star, clients may get extremely nervous in the presence of a porn escort, making them impotent or unable to perform. It’s extremely challenging for a porn escort to help a client get past his initial reaction to being with her. Clients do best when they think of their escort as any other woman, not the lady they jerk off to every night. Getting a conversation going with a porn escort is important for both the escort and client to be able to enjoy themselves. The encounter can be extremely awkward if a client is too stiff or anxious to engage in traditional chit-chat. Porn actresses are just like any other escort and like to talk about hobbies, the weather, current events or sex, in general. Conversation with a porn escort is essential, especially since many clients book longer blocks of time with a celebrity. Being able to talk about real life between “activities” will make the experience much better.
  13. Many porn escorts look different in real life than they do on screen. Because their images are highly edited or airbrushed and camera angles are used to increase their attractiveness, many porn actresses do not seem as beautiful in the flesh as they do in their videos or pictures. Having the help of professional hair stylists and make-up artists between scenes keep a porn actress looking her best. However, when she is with you, she may not have those experts by her side to help her maintain her flawless image. Some clients are disappointed to discover that the porn actress they’ve admired forever on screen is not really as beautiful as she seemed.
  14. Lack of enthusiasm is an issue complained about by many clients of porn escorts. Despite their excited, breathless performances in videos, many porn escorts are less than thrilled to be engaging in intimate activities with their balding, chubby clients. Some escorts reveal in anonymous, candid blogs that they develop friendly relationships with their on-screen partners, so sex with them is enjoyable. However, having intercourse with a complete stranger for money is something different than they anticipated, so they lay there until it’s over. Others simply rely on their celeb status to impress clients. Some think they do not have to perform, as their presence, alone, is worth the money spent by the client. This is not the case with all porn escorts. But in the industry, as a whole, there are good and bad escorts, too.