This is a reference for escort terms and abbreviations used to describe varoius sexual activities in escort ads. Each sex term is followed by a definition and every escort abbreviation is explained.
Information, intelligence, intel. e.g. "I got the 411 on her from hobbyhorse". In the context of online forums requests for information about ASPs are labeled "411", e.g., "411 Redhead Rianna".
420 or 420 friendly
An ASP that will smoke marijuana with you. A bit of advice: Adding drugs to your hobbying mix tends to give you a MUCH larger profile on Uncle Leo's radar. An ASP who has a rep for being 420-friendly is likely getting way more attention from Uncle Leo than the more conservative hobbyists would prefer.
69
Mutual, simultaneous oral sex.
$
The dollar sign (or collection of dollar signs) is sometimes used imply the price range of the services offered/provided. E.g., $ = $100, $$ = $200, $$$ = $300 and so on. Often .5 signifies $50, so $$.5 would mean $250.
An organization or individual that manages many providers. The agency handles all calls, bookings and advertising. The agency takes a percentage of the fee for each session.
amazon
A tall, strong, often masculine woman.
AMP
Asian Massage Parlor.
ASP
Adult Service Provider.
analingus
Oral stimulation of the anus.
Around The World
Rimming. Oral sex on the anus of either sex, analingus
Ass To Mouth. Penis, finger or toy comes out of receiver's anus, and goes directly into receiver's mouth.
attempts
Trying to reach orgasm. e.g. ASP allowed multiple attempts: means the ASP allows more than one orgasm per session if the client is able and interested.
aka MSOG.
Aunt Flo
Menstruation, period. 'Being visited by Aunt Flo'.
Describes a situation where ASP advertisements, which may include photos, written or verbal descriptions, do not match the ASP who shows up, or which has been grossly misrepresented the ASP.
babyback
Petite, young, attractive Asian woman.
baby dyke
A young lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet.
bag
Condom, with a condom, e.g. "BJ in a bag" = CBJ or "I filled the bag" = orgasm.
Baja Sur
Genitals. From the spanish "the low south".
balloons
Breast implants.
bare back, bareback
Without a condom. Depending upon context it may be used as shorthand for intercourse without a condom (BBFS).
barracuda
An ASP whose only purpose is to separate you from your money as quickly as possible, preferably without giving you anything in return.
Batin
Groin massage, but sometimes means hand job (from Malaysia).
BBBJ
Bare Back Blow Job. fellatio without a condom; aka "un-translated French" (UTF).
BBBJNQNS
Bare Back Blow Job No Quit No Spit; oral sex performed to completion with swallowing.
BBBJTC
Bareback Blowjob To Completion. Oral stimulation of the penis to orgasm without a condom. (May spit or swallow), aka CIM.
BBBJTCWS
Bare Back Blow Job to Completion with Swallowing.
BBBJWF
Bareback Blowjob With Facial.
BBFS
Sexual intercourse without a condom.
BBW
Big Beautiful Woman. An escort, ASP, who caters to clientele that prefer fuller-figured to overweight women.
BCD
Behind Closed Doors. Often used to mean activities that will be described to a privileged listener or nobody at all.
BDSM
Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism. This is a catch-all to refer to the various aspects of negotiated, mutually consensual exchange of power between two consenting adults. Regardless of the depth of the relationship, consent, safety and sanity are the cornerstone of this lifestyle.
beard
A person of the opposite sex who marries or dates a closeted lesbian or gay person to cover up their homosexuality. In the past, often lesbians married gay men so that both could "pass" as straight, either for work or for their families.
beret
A condom.
BF
boyfriend.
BFE
Boyfriend Experience, A subjective term used primarily by ASP to describe good clients.
A person who is sexually and emotionally attracted to both women and men.
blackhole
Anus.
blue pill or blue steel
Viagra.
BJ
Blow job, fellatio, French. Oral stimulation of the penis.
BL
Body Lick.
BLS
Ball Licking and Sucking.
Body-Rub
A massage or massage-like service. Used instead of "massage", usually to indicate sexual stimulation (usually a handjob) is included and the person performing the service is not licensed as a massage therapist, aka FBSM, Sensual Massage.
Boston Marriage
In the late nineteenth century, it was common for two unmarried women to share a home. Many women, particularly those who were college educated, lived in long-term unions with other women. These relationships became known as "Boston Marriages.".
brown eye
Anus.
brown shower
Defecation on your partner.
BS or body slide
Service where the ASP may slide their body on the client's body using oil.
bukkake
A variety of fetish that involves repeated ejaculation of a female by many men. See also gokkon.
bulldagger
A term that was used in the 1920s to define a very butch lesbian. Often African American.
bulldyke
A very masculine lesbian.
businessmen-only, gentlemen-only or professional-only
A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The ASP posts this in hopes of attracting "better" clientele.
butch
A woman who adopts what would be considered masculine characteristics.
butter face
A women whose body is very attractive, but her face is not. Everything looks good but 'er face.
A rip-off. The person posing as an ASP shows up, takes your money, doesn't provide any services or might offer to "dance" (but more often than not does not), and leaves with the cash, aka dance and dash, ROB.
An ASP who is FS for $200/hr or less. The "CC" bit is the Roman numeral for 200.
CCL
Concentration Camp Look.
CD
cross-dresser.
A person, and especially a male who adopts the dress and often the behavior typical of the opposite gender especially for purposes of emotional or sexual gratification.
A person who sometimes wears the clothing and aesthetics of a gender other than the one they typically wear in their daily lives. See also transvestite
CDS
Covered Doggy Style.
CFM
Come Fuck Me, usually refer to the look of a person.
CFS
Covered Full Service. Sexual intercourse (coitus) with a condom.
Chump
A man who gives his money and/or his attention to women without getting any pussy in return. Largely a phenomenon experienced by American men when dating American women.
CID
Cum In Deep. The provider lets you come inside her with no condom. See BBFS.
A person who makes them self available for sexual encounters but not for financial gain. May be less discreet than an ASP and more interested in a relationship. Not to be confused with non-pro.
CL
Craig's List. The classifieds board of the internet, and formerly a free place for providers to advertise. Not so much a of player since the removal of Adult and Erotic services.
clock watcher
An ASP who counts the minutes until the session is over. Usually used to describe an ASP who rushes and does not enjoy her work.
CMD
Carpet Matches Drapes (typically a natural blonde).
CMP
Chinese Massage Parlor.
CMT
Certified Massage Therapist. Generally a CMT is not an ASP. While an ASP specializing in massage services might be a CMT, it is unwise to assume a CMT is an ASP. Very unwise.
Sexual intercourse characterized by the male penis entering the female vagina.
collar and cuffs match
A euphemism to indicate that pubic hair color matches color of the hair on the head; natural hair coloring. Sometimes also referred to as 'carpet & curtains match'.
commercial company
a euphemism for prostitution generally used by truckers.
completion
Orgasm. e.g. Bareback blowjob to completion.
cover
A condom.
covered
Various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid sexually transmitted diseases. (e.g. Covered Blowjob means a condom was used.).
cowgirl
'Girl on top' position for sexual intercourse. Sometimes abbreviated CG (though this can be confused with the abbreviation for Call Girl as well. Mind the context for clarification.).
crime scene action
Sexual activity during the provider's period (while menstruating). See also red wings.
crone
The word "crone" was (and in some circles still is) a derogatory term for an old woman. In the 1970s, during the feminist movement, lesbians began to adopt the word crone to mean a wise older woman. Today, in lesbian and feminist circles, a crone is a wise older woman whose life experience demands that she be treated with respect.
cruising
Looking for prostitutes while driving. Cyber-equivalents aren't hard to imagine.
crushing
Fetish relating to dominance and control; a desire to see small, defenseless animals crushed under women's high heels.
cunnilingus
Oral stimulation of a woman's genitalia. 'giving head' to a woman. 'going down on' a woman.
cups of coffee
Orgasms, e.g. multiple cups of coffee means the provider allows more than one orgasm.
A rip-off. The person posing as an ASP shows up, takes your money, doesn't provide any services or might offer to "dance" (but more often than not does not), and leaves with the cash. See cash and dash, ROB.
date
(1) A session with an ASP. (2) A person who patronizes an ASP.
date rape drug
Rohypnol (generic name flunitrazepam) has been associated with date rape, and has also been called the "Forget Pill," "Trip-and-Fall," and "Mind-Erasers." In combination with alcohol, it can induce a blackout with memory loss and a decrease in resistance. Girls and women around the country have reported being raped after being involuntarily sedated with Rohypnol, which was often slipped into their drink by an attacker. The drug has no taste or odor so the victims don't realize what is happening. About ten minutes after ingesting the drug, the woman may feel dizzy and disoriented, simultaneously too hot and too cold, or nauseated. She may experience difficulty speaking and moving, and then pass out. Such victims have no memories of what happened while under the drug's influence.
DATO
Dining At The O. Analingus, oral stimulation of the anus. See also rimming and Asian.
Doesn't Do Extras. Implies the ASP has a very limited and stringently adhered to menu.
DDF
Drug and Disease Free.
DDG
Drop Dead Gorgeous.
DDP
Double Digit Penetration (vagina and anus).
deep throat or DT
fellatio where the whole length of the penis is "swallowed".
defender
A hobbyist who defends or "comes to the rescue" of a provider who has been reviewed or spoken of poorly, regardless of whether the review or comments are accurate, aka White Knight.
deposit
a payment in advance of a session. Deposits are usually used by ASPs as a hedge against no-shows.
DFE
Dead Fish Experience.
DFF
Dead Fish Fuck.
DFK
Deep French Kissing. Kissing with deep, substantial tongue contact.
diesel dyke
A very butch or manly lesbian, especially one who is very aggressive.
digital penetration
Insertion of the fingers (or toes) in the vagina or anus for the purpose of sexual stimulation. This has nothing to do with the insertion of digital devices up anyone's orifice—hold on to those iPads!.
Dirty Sanchez
When two people engage in anal sex, then the person who has been 'giving it' to the other's ass takes his penis or penis-like implement and rubs it on the other person's upper lip leaving a moustache.
DIY
Do It Yourself (masturbation). See also self-service.
doggie style
Rear entry position for sexual intercourse. See Spanish.
donation
A euphemism for a payment to an ASP. Generally considered a feeble dodge against legal concerns—after all if you are giving the ASP a donation or gift, you are not paying for sex.
double penetration
when a person (generally a female) has two objects (generally penises) simultaneously inserted in any two of the mouth, anus or vagina (most commonly the anus and vagina).
fellatio where the whole length of the penis is "swallowed".
dyke
Another word for lesbian. Usually is only used by people who are gay, lesbian, bisexual or trans. A straight person using this word may offend some people.
Law Enforcement. The euphemism stems from the fact that people would refer to Law Enforcement with the abbreviation, "LE". When expressed phonetically it was confused with the female name, "Ellie". Since confusion and chaos rule despite people's best efforts—.
EMA
Extra-Marital-Affairs. Affairs after marriage, but before divorce.
EMP
European Massage Parlor (white girls).
English
Segment of bondage and discipline; including spankings/whippings.
enhancements
Implants, most commonly breast implants, but sometimes penile implants (depending upon context).
envelope
Often cash payments for an ASP's services are placed in an envelope. Rather than handing the ASP cash directly, or discussing money, the envelope is left in a conspicuous location for the ASP to discreetly pick up.
EOM
End of Message. Used in a subject line of a forum post to indicate no further content in body of message—where the title is intended to be sufficient.
escort
An ASP who is paid for her time and companionship (only).
escort mall, mall
A website that advertises many different ASPs. The ASPs may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with
each other, or with the mall.
The strategy of "Find them, Fuck them, Forget them".
fisting
The act or art of putting a fist in an anus or vagina. Apparently a very popular practice among more evolved (kinky) gays. It requires great care and huge amounts of lubrication. .
FIV
Finger In Vagina, digital stimulations.
Five-O
A police officer (uniformed or undercover). The cultural reference stems from the 1970's TV show "Hawaii 5-O", which derived its name from the name for Hawaii State Police force.
FJ
Foot Job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes.
FK
French Kissing.
FL
Free Lance.
flake
One who exhibits flaky or erratic behavior. Often used to describe ASPs or hobbyists who no-show and/or have scheduling issues.
FMF
Threesome designation: female, male, female.
FOBU
Fat-Old-Bald-Ugly.
FOTC
Fuck Of The Century.
FOV
Finger Outside Vagina.
FR
Field Report, Fuck Review.
French
Oral stimulation of the penis. Fellatio. "Translated" with a condom. "Untranslated" without a condom.
Fear, Uncertainty and Doubt. What some (asshole) posters try to spread when they post on public forums with false accusations of LE activity and STD outbreaks.
A gayborhood is a gay-friendly neighborhood or an area of town where gays and lesbians are known to live.
gaydar
The ability to determine who is and isn't gay.
gender expression
The physical manifestation of one's gender identity, usually expressed through clothing, mannerisms, and chosen names.
gender identity
A person's internal sense of being a man or woman or boy or girl. For transgender people, their gender identity will not match the gender with which they were born.
gender identity disorder
A term used by physicians and psychologists to classify people who are transgender or transsexual.
gender variance
Behavior that is different from traditionally defined "masculine" in males and "feminine" in females.
genderqueer
Someone who transgresses boundaries of gender identity and sexual orientation.
gentlemen only
businessmen-only or professional-only. A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The ASP posts this in hopes of attracting a "better" clientele.
get comfortable
Get naked. As a feeble dodge of law enforcement, an ASP may ask a client to "get comfortable" or "make yourself comfortable" before a session, this means to get fully undressed.
GF
Girl Friend.
GFE
Girlfriend Experience. A frequently used, but utterly nebulous term. It refers to a session that is more like lovemaking with a girlfriend than a commercial service, whatever that means! It generally implies more about the tone & tenor of the session than about specific services provided, but many believe GFE should include the possibility of DFK, DATY, UTF and a broad array of FS positions.
GF3
Girlfriend experience with all three holes.
girl crush
When two women have strong feelings for one another, but not in a sexual way. A girl crush is strong infatuation that one woman has for another woman who seems beautiful, sophisticated, charming or accomplished. It usually refers to heterosexual women.
glove
condom.
GND
Girl Next Door.
GOG
Girl-On-Girl.
gokkon
A variety of fetish that involves swallowing and/or ingesting copious amounts of semen by either a man or a woman. See also bukkake.
golden shower, GS
Urinating on your partner, urine play. See also water sports.
gold star lesbian
A lesbian who has never slept with a man and has no intention of ever sleeping with a man.
Greek
anal sex; anal sexual intercourse; penetration of the anus by the penis.
BJ followed by FS; a combination of both oral sex and sexual intercourse; fellatio & coitus.
hardwood floors
clean-shaven pubic area.
hasbian
A woman who used to identify as a lesbian and dated women, but is now dating men.
hat
condom.
HC
High Class.
HE
Happy Ending.
Herb friendly
Is amenable to marijuana use, aka 420 friendly. A bit of advice: Adding drugs to your hobbying mix tends to give you a MUCH larger profile on Uncle Leo's radar. An ASP, who has a rep for being herb friendly likely is getting way more attention from Uncle Leo than the more conservative hobbyists would prefer.
HHHJ
Half Hearted Hand Job.
hidden charges
An ASP takes the advertised fee upfront, but
in the midst of
the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress
and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for
French, or $$ for FS, etc.), aka upselling.
Hindu massage
The woman contracts her vaginal muscles during sex to squeeze you to completion (Argentina).
HJ or Handjob
Masturbation; hand & finger stimulation of the penis by the ASP, aka hand release, manual release.
HM
High Mileage. A derogatory reference to the number of sexual partners a person may have had. Conveys an implication of showing the 'wear and tear' of the said mileage.
HME
Honeymoon Experience. Supposedly better than a GFE, and even more nebulous. It refers to a session that is comparable to the intensity and passion of lovemaking while on one's honeymoon. Mostly marketing hype.
hobby
Slang, euphemistic reference to the business of a client enlisting the services of an ASP.
hobbyist
Slang, euphemistic reference to one who (actively) participates in 'the hobby'.
homophobia
Fear or dislike of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.
hooker
Prostitute.
Hostess club
A lower end strip club where bargaining for sex acts with the dancers is acceptable, and some activities may occur on premises.
Hotdogging
Also hotdoggin'. The pseudo-sexual act of placing the penis between the butt cheeks of the receiving partner. The penis being the "Hotdog" and the butt cheeks being the "Bun". There is no intercourse, and usually no ejaculation. This is mainly a comical practice, and usually enjoyed by the giver more than the receiver. See also Italian.
An establishment (massage parlor, lingerie modelling) that is not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and hand job, but more services might be available.
Looks/Attitude/Service: A subjective ranking system where each criteria is separately ranked, from lowest (1) to highest (10). Examples: 2/9/8 = Unnattractive, but very friendly and good sex. 10/5/4 = Model material, but a poor attitude, and mediocre sex.
labrys
A double-sided axe that the Amazons were said to use as their main weapon. Lesbians have adopted the labrys as symbol of power and independence. Many lesbians wear necklaces or earrings with a labrys symbol as a way to identify themselves to other lesbians.
Landing strip
A style of pubic hair sculpting resulting in a narrow vertical strip.
A woman who has only had sex with one other woman in their life. Straight and bisexual people can be Lone Stars as well, but Lone Star Hetero doesn't sound nearly as interesting.
lot lizard
A prostitute that works primarily in truck stop parking lots (usually soliciting from a CB radio).
LTR
Long Term Relationship. When an ASP drops out of the business for a very substantial stipend, paid weekly, or monthly for exclusivity she is said to be in a long term relationship. See also sugar daddy.
In a British parlour, the person who answers the phone and books the schedule.
Mall
Also escort mall. A website like Dating.com that advertises a variety of escorts or ASPs. The ASPs may be independent or agency, and may or may not be associated with each other, or with the mall.
Stimulation of the penis to orgasm using hand and fingers, aka hand job, hand release.
Massage
A method of treating the body for remedial or hygienic purposes, including but not limited to rubbing, stroking, kneading, or tapping with the hand or an instrument or both. It may, but does not necessarily, include sexual stimulation. Sensual Massage indicates a massage with sexual stimulation (usually a hand job).
Anal sex or analingus, e.g. "She took me on a trip to the Mediterranean.". See also Greek.
Menu
The services generally considered available from a particular ASP.
merkin
Pubic hair wig / toupee. Also, something George W. Bush has repeatedly said he is proud to be.
MFF
Threesome designation: Male, female, female.
MFM
Threesome designation: male, female, male.
MG
Massage Girl.
MIB
Man in blue, law enforcement officer.
Mileage
A subjective term that describes value for money and/or how accommodating an ASP is. Good mileage usually means she either charges less than average, provides better L/A/S than average, or both.
MILF
Mom/Mother I'd Like to Fuck.
Missionary
Also mish. A position for sexual intercourse where the man is on top.
MJ
Massage Job.
ML
Make Love
Massage Lady
MMF
Threesome designation: male, male, female.
Mohawk
A pubic hair style leaving a narrow strip of hair in the middle of the pubic area, aka landing strip, muff hawk, cock mohawk.
Monger
Short for whore monger. One who frequents prostitutes. See also hobbyist.
MP
Massage Parlor
Multiple Positions
MPA
Massage Parlor Attendant.
MPCFS
Multiple Positions Covered Full
Service.
MPOS
Multiple Positions Oral Sex.
MSOG
Multiple Shots On Goal, also Multiple Pops. The ASP allows you the opportunity to climax more than once during the session.
No-Money Guys. Hobbyists who are on a strict (generally low) budget for hobbying.
Nooner
A lunch-time or afternoon session, popular with married hobbyists.
Non-pro
A person who makes her/himself available for sexual encounters for financial gain only occasionally (possibly to meet some short-term financial needs). May be less discreet than a provider and more interested in a relationship. Some argue that 'the line' is more definitive—if you take money, then you are a professional.
No-show
When an ASP or hobbyist doesn't show up for an appointment and has not contacted the other party in advance to cancel or warn of problems in making the appointment. A very annoying and, unfortunately, too common occurrence in the hobby. When the offending party doesn't call afterwards to offer an explanation and/or apology the situation is referred to as a No-Show/No-Call (NS/NC) and is considered an even more egregious offense.
No-touch
No touching allowed. (e.g. no-touchJack shack, no-touch strip club).
A hobbyist who is immersed in the hobby culture. He may be very involved with the review boards and/or private exchange of information on ASPs and the hobby.
Pop, pops
Orgasms. An ASP may allow a client to have more than one orgasm during the session (e.g. more than one or multiple pops allowed).
POS
Pussy on the Side. Usually referring to hobbyists in relationships who are getting some POS.
Power dyke
A lesbian who has gained a position of power, either within the LGBT community, or in the world at large.
Professional-only
Also gentleman-only, businessmen-only. A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The ASP posts this in hopes of attracting "better" clientele.
Provider
Prostitute.
PS
Private Show (Dance only).
PSE
Porn Star Experience. A session that gives the feeling of being in a Porn or XXX Movie or like having a date with a Porn Star. As with the Girlfriend Experience (GFE), a PSE is not very well defined and definitions will vary wildly. It generally refers more to the tone & tenor of the session (totally wild!) than to specific services provided, but many believe PSE should include the possibility of DATY, UTF, Greek, DFK, NQNS, Russian, COF and a broad array of FS positions.
Puffies or puffers
Breasts where the entire areola appears 'puffy', enlarged, or swollen.
Sexual activity in which various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid diseases transmitted by sexual contact. e.g. All activities were safe.
An ASP or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client. E.g. collecting verifiable personal info such as the hobbyist's real name, place of employment, home or work phone, home or work address, and/ or a referral from a trusted provider. Upfront deposits may also be used as a screening tool to hedge against no-shows.
Self-review
Also Self-post. An ASP or agency poses as a hobbyist, and posts a highly positive review of herself or agency to increase business.
Self service
Masturbation. e.g. "It was a self-servicejack shack" = no contact with the dancer, but the man can masturbate.
Sensual Massage
Also SM. Indicates a massage with sexual stimulation (usually a hand job).
Catch all phrase sometimes used to describe prostitutes. May also be used in the context of strippers, peep show workers, topless waitresses.
SFH
Sex For Hire.
SG
Street Girl.
Shemale
Transexual, particularly one who is living as a woman, but hasn't had SRS. Penis may or may not get erect.
Shill
A person who writes unsolicited positive commentary about an ASP in a discussion forum to 'suck up' to the ASP or who writes unwarranted positive reviews in exchange for discounts or special favors from an ASP or agency.
Shots on goal
Attempts to reach orgasm. e.g. ' She allowed multiple shots on goal' means she allows more than one orgasm per session if the client is able and interested. See MSOG.
Sifty nine
Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously. See also 69.
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Slam, slammed
An unwarranted or overzealous harsh review or abusive criticism of an ASP or agency.
Snowball
ASP takes ejaculate in her mouth and returns it via kissing to the ejaculator.
SO
Significant Other. Spouse or partner in a (non-casual) relationship.
SOG
Shots on goal, attempts at orgasm.
Soixante-neuf
69. Partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously. See also 69.
.
Penis, finger or toy comes out of the ASP's ass, and goes directly into the ASP's mouth. See also Dirty Sanchez, ATM.
Spinner
A very petite provider. So petite in fact, she could easily spin around the client's erect penis in a position like Asian Cowgirl. One possible etymology: from the action reminiscent of the 1970's toy, "Sit 'n' Spin".
A female police officer poses as an ASP to apprehend unsuspecting clients, or a male police officer poses as a client to apprehend unsuspecting ASPs.
Stone butch lesbian
A lesbian who gets her pleasure from pleasing her partner. She does not like to be touched sexually.
STR
Short Term Relationship.
Street action
Prostitution that is solicited on public streets. Prostitutes (usually on foot) are picked up by clients in motor vehicles. Sexual acts may occur in the vehicle, or at another agreed upon location.
Stroll
A street, strip, or neighborhood that sees heavy street action.
Self-service. Refers to an establishment that doesn't offer FS. The premises will only have a large chair or "throne" for you to sit on and masturbate while the woman dances for you.
Tipping required
The ASP demands more than the advertised price in order to perform, or bargains hard for various services. See also upselling, hidden charges.
To completion
Until orgasm.
TOFTT
Take One For The Team. What a hobbyist is said to do when they see an enigmatic ASP. Some argue that a hobbyist is only TOFTT when the experience ends up to be a bad experience. Others argue that if the hobbyist doesn't report back in some way, e.g., with a review, then the hobbyist has not TOFTT.
A person whose gender expression is different from how society says they are "supposed" to be. Transgender can be an umbrella term for cross-dressers, transsexuals, intersex people and other gender-variant individuals.
Transsexual
A person with the urge to be the opposite sex. They may or may not choose to have gender reassignment surgery.
Translated French, TF
Oral sex with a condom.
Translation, translator
Condom, e.g., "She spoke fluent French without a translator" = BBBJ.
Transvestite
A person who sometimes wears clothes traditionally worn by and associated with the opposite sex; typically a male who cross-dresses occasionally by habit or compulsion.
Trick
A sex act for money, as in 'She is turning tricks'.
A man who patronizes prostitutes, as in 'That trick was a FOBU'.
Tri F
A devotee to the "Find them, Fuck them, Forget them" strategy.
Trolling
The act of driving around looking for a prostitute. As in cruising.
Posting to a discussion board with the intent to anger or incite others. One who does so is referred to as a 'troll'.
TS
Transsexual. A person with the urge to be the opposite sex. They may or may not choose to have gender reassignment surgery.
Table Shower.
TTA
Tight Tan Ass.
Tuft
Pubic hair.
TUMA
Tongue Up My Ass.
Turning tricks
Prostitution.
TV
Transvestite. A person who sometimes wears clothes traditionally worn by and associated with the opposite sex; typically a male who cross-dresses occasionally by habit or compulsion.
TVSW
Transvestite Street Walker.
Two Call System
The general location is revealed during the first call; location specifics are revealed on the second call.
An ASP takes the advertised fee upfront, but in the midst of the session she asks for more money for more services. (e.g. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.), aka hidden charges.
UTF
Untranslated French. Oral sex without a condom.
UTR
Under The Radar; an ASP who maintains a very low profile; generally does not advertise, does not accept reviews, does not have a website and does not participate in hobby forums.
Alternative weekly newspapers. These often contain various adult service listings, including massage and escort advertisements. e.g. The Village Voice, San Francisco Bay Guardian, The Stranger.
WF
Wild Fuck.
WG
Working Girl. A prostitute.
White knight
A hobbyist who defends or "comes to the rescue" of a provider who has been reviewed or spoken of poorly, regardless of whether the review or comments are accurate, aka defender.
Whoremonger
One who habitually patronizes prostitutes.
WIR
Would I Repeat, Would I Return, Would I Recommend.
Your Mileage May Vary. A overused, common sense disclaimer meant to convey that an ASP may do things with one person, but not with another. Often used as a caveat, "Don't accuse me of a false report if she doesn't do the same with you.".
YMMV Girl
An ASP who is known for being inconsistent in her attitude and service. i.e. Gets hot and cold reviews.
